About Melita

Testimonials

"The time we spent conferencing was very valuable in giving me direction and seeing my choices.  I benefited from your gentle guidance and my affirmations to you that my Third Age was going to be meaningful and of my design.  You are a delightful person to work with.  Thank you for your contributions to my life."

P.W. - Businessman

 

 “When I first started working with Melita, she suggested I write a vision statement to determine where I wanted to go with my life in the next ten years.  Five years later I have achieved so many of my academic, travel and professional goals I wrote about.  With Melita reflecting my values and goals back to me in her quiet, positive, and effective manner and reminding me of the power of making conscious choices, I have discovered my ability to navigate the direction of my life, which has been a joyful journey indeed!  Melita’s coaching keeps me true to my values and my potential. She teaches me how to weave the loose strands of my life together into a tapestry of many colors. When I came to a crossroads in my career – my life – Melita was there to guide me. She helped me discover what was important to me and mirrored it back. "

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It has been an absolute pleasure working with you. Every positive step I took, you were in the background supporting my progress in moving in the direction of the life I am meant to live. What I talked about yesterday, with the angels who guide me; you are here in body and spirit, but you are one of them too. How can I go wrong when I have so many angels watching out for me? I am most grateful for that. Thank you, Melita!”

S.M. – writer

 

“I wanted to share everything I have done since we last spoke. Thanks to your never ending support and broad shoulders I have been able to jump to the other side of the fence. Hurray!!! . . . I could not have made these decisions without your guidance.

Thank you for your tremendous support helping me remain focused on my goals. You have taught me to analyze a situation and ask myself how will this serve me. So often we go through life just reacting and not giving it another thought as to the true outcome. Thank you for showing me how to live again. If I could, I would give you a big hug right now. Please know I will always be grateful for the time you have spent with me."

D.P.  - Business woman

 

“Melita is a great coach. Coaching with her has shown me that what keeps me from having the life that I want are not forces without, but barriers within.   Melita’s coaching helps me get clear with myself – clear about my values, needs, and goals. She then helps me identify the obstacles keeping me from living in my values, honoring my needs, and working towards my goals.   Coaching with Melita is the best money I spend every month.”

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"I want you to know how vital you and this experience of coaching has been to me. My life is really, really good and I owe that in great majority to our coaching relationship. I want you to know how grateful I am to you."

A.M.S. – Business person and writer

 

“Coaching with Melita was interesting, meaningful, and I carried away some good lessons that I’m sure will be of benefit for the future. It was remarkable to me what twists and turns the path took. I think I expected to be talking about the book all the time; but the journey made more sense NOT talking about the book, but talking and thinking about the rest of my life, which in the final analysis supports the book anyway.

Thanks so much for helping me to find joy and insight in the unexpected twists and turns and the importance of “just going with it” as well as making room for important values.

You are a wonderful coach. I have always admired the way you can be genuinely happy for people when they find what’s right for them. What a great gift you give people!”

K.C. – Author and business woman 

 

"I have been working with Melita DeBellis on coaching issues that are very relevant to my personal and professional lives. I have found the experience to be extremely helpful, supportive, and clarifying. I would characterize her approach as a combination of non-judgmental counseling and honest friendship. "

R.L. - Executive Director, nonprofit organization